If you don't believe me (I mean, do I really understand men? He recently developed a major crush on a doctor, and here's what he had to say about her on p. On the other hand, my dad walked in as I was writing this, and when I told him the stats, he said "That's all? 184: "She was all mischief and charm, smarts and knowledge. I bet it would be even higher in America." (Discussing dating stats with your father: an entirely separate, infinitely more awkward topic.) Crap! The faces were taken from European or Japanese faces.They found that men rated women with more feminine features more highly for a fling.
However, this week I'm shaking my head at a recent survey. It turned out that a majority of the British women agreed with me, but I was still surprised to learn that 41% chose breasts! As explanation, 57% of the women said they thought men would be more interested in them if they had bigger breasts, and 59% said men valued the appearance of a woman rather than her intelligence. I'll spare us all the lecture about making (imaginary) decisions about yourself based on what men would or wouldn't like because a) this is a dating blog, so we talk about men all the time, and b) I'm only human, guys.Originally published on Persephone and cross-posted here with their permission.I was IMing with a friend recently about a guy she has an unrequited crush on.Feminine features are associated with a higher level of the female hormone oestrogen, which is also linked with reproductive success.Studies on factors that influence human mating mostly focus on women, who have shown a similar preference for a hunkier man for a fling but a geekier one to settle down with- possibly a more reliable bet for helping to raise children.It took a while to get here since nobody on The OC or One Tree Hill looked like me when I was growing up, but I am finally happy with the way that I look.My issue with being an Asian woman and trying to date has less to do with my perception of myself, and everything to do with the way I am treated and perceived by men, specifically non-Asian men.Cosmo recently published the results of an online survey of over 500 men asking them what they think of women.Because our whole culture tells women that success, love and happiness comes when you’re “hot”, and the way to get “hot” is to diet and exercise and use every weird new chemical cosmetic and even inject toxins and cut your body to reshape it – because hot is to please other people!' to which she explained the dress was too tight to do so.Taking his antics a step further, the cheeky star then asked 'can I play your bongos?